One way of managing a chronic disorder, particularly one that affects physical mobility and causes constant pain, is figuring out what treatment works for you. What helps me may not benefit you, and vice versa. I believe that sometimes a little trial and error can help you discover what brings physical and mental relief.
I’m lucky that when I was diagnosed, I already had a hobby that was an excellent form of exercise within the bounds of what my doctor allowed with my Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS). He told me that riding is great for me, but falling off is not. What a surprise. Riding also provided me with a bonus: emotional release.
In addition to massage therapy, I found that riding was an incredible form of therapy for me — that’s why equine therapy is a “thing”! My horse Arti and I worked in a continual state of compromise; some days I wasn’t feeling well, and walking around on him (or even with him) could help loosen my tight muscles and relax my mind. On other days he struggled, and I had to change my plans to meet his needs.
It’s difficult for anyone other than a horse person to understand the bond between horse and rider. That connection goes far beyond the relationship between a human and their cat or dog. I know because I have those pets, too. With a horse, much of your life revolves around their care, and each has to trust the other with their life every time you get in the saddle.
As a horse, he trusts that you won’t ask him to do anything dangerous, and as a rider, you rely on your horse to avoid actions that could cause you to fall off and be injured. Arti and I both felt the same physical stresses, and as we spent many hours together “rehabbing,” we developed a bond deeper than any other I’ve had. Caring for his needs pushed me to be a better person and enhanced my physical and mental health.
During my time with Arti, I met some amazing people who challenged my negative mindset and pushed me to develop a more positive outlook. I was starting to put the pieces together and to realize how much my physical well-being affected my mental state — and vice versa. I knew that if I wasn’t careful, it could cause a snowball effect. Negativity had been my go-to for a long time because I was in so much pain that merely getting by often seemed like an insurmountable feat.
But as I met friends, and one in particular, who refused to take part in my negativity, I started to realize that if I adopted a more positive mindset, the world didn’t feel so heavy. And it was a little easier to accomplish more. The positivity also began to have beneficial effects on my body. I recognized that the cycle of physical and mental connection could work both ways: I could drag myself down with negativity and feel worse, or I could build myself up with positivity and experience the benefits in my body. This realization was a significant turning point for me, and one that has shaped how I have dealt with my EDS ever since.
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