I Focus on the Holiday Spirit Instead of My EDS

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by Karen Del Vecchio |

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I love the holiday season. Time spent with family, brisk winter air, time off from work (a bonus to working for a school), and giving gifts that make people smile — it’s hard to top that! I also try my best to make sure that my Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS) affects my holiday season as little as possible. As I wrote in a previous column, sometimes we need to put less focus on the day-to-day management and remember who we are without a genetic disorder.

That means finding ways to do what I enjoy during the holidays despite my EDS. Like many people with EDS, I often have digestive issues. One way I combat that is to be as healthy as possible leading up to a party or get-together where I might eat foods that are richer than my usual diet. Before our staff Christmas party last month, I had a salad and fruit for lunch to make up for the less healthy fare I would be having for dinner. I also made sure I didn’t arrive at the party hungry, which is a recipe for eating things that I shouldn’t!

Another winter activity I enjoy is sledding and being out in the snow. Living in the southern Mid-Atlantic, however, means that snow isn’t common. But I always visit my grandparents and extended family in New England, so there’s a chance I’ll get to enjoy a winter wonderland while I’m there. I’ll definitely go sledding if I get the opportunity, but I will avoid steep hills. I will also opt out if my family goes skiing and snowboarding — the risks of such potentially high-impact activities are too great. But I can have fun sledding, building snowmen, and enjoying the beautiful scenery.

The main thing is to enjoy time with family and friends, and to remember that it’s a season of joy and giving. I find that by focusing on the positives, I don’t let EDS control my life — even if sometimes I feel like it controls my body. Having EDS doesn’t keep me from decorating the Christmas tree, finding thoughtful gifts for people I care about, or visiting with those I don’t see very often.

And the times with friends and family are the pieces of the holiday season that are most important.


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