Thanks to the Rare Disease Community, I Feel Less Isolated
As I sit here working on my column, with a heating pad wrapped around my hip to calm down a recent injury, I wonder about the similarities among those of us with various rare disorders.
Of course, someone like me with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS) faces different struggles than someone with pulmonary hypertension or sickle cell disease, for example, but what about the threads that tie different rare disorders together? Are they perhaps more important than those that set us apart?
Personally, I have never met face-to-face with anyone else who has EDS. I’ve heard a couple people say they know someone who has it, but I’ve never actually met them. It’s really made me think about how I sometimes just hang out in my personal EDS silo. But is that really the best approach?
While every disease comes with its own unique struggles, I think that one thing many of us deal with is that if you have a rare disease, it’s, well, rare. You may or may not know others who have it and manage the same things you do. And there are moments when that can be frustrating.
But then I think about all of the people I know who have other diagnoses. I have a friend with rheumatoid arthritis. I know someone with alopecia. A family member has Crohn’s disease. The list goes on.
So, really, I have an entire network of people who manage rare diseases and disorders all around me. While their individual symptoms and struggles are different, we all likely manage some of the same things every day, including fatigue, having to explain our condition to others, trying our best to break through our symptoms and be as “normal” as possible, and trying to manage pain or discomfort as best we can.
Some of these more universal phenomena have made me realize that while I don’t actually know anyone else with EDS, I know plenty of people who do understand what it’s like to manage a condition that most people don’t understand. In doing so, I’ve come to recognize that the greater rare disease community is actually much larger than I ever realized.
When I started to think of all the people I know who work hard every day to manage a condition, it really helped me feel like I’m less of an anomaly and more like a lot of other people out there. Having a rare disease can feel isolating, but recognizing the size and strength of a larger community was eye-opening for me.
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