Thanks to My EDS Pain, I Finally Remembered I Need a New Mattress
Last fall, I repeatedly woke up quite sore, and it finally dawned on me that I needed a new mattress. Great! Easy fix, right? Well, it should have been — if I hadn’t forgotten to do it.
You might be wondering, “How in the world do you forget to purchase a new mattress when the one you have is causing you pain?” It’s a fair question.
I knew it would take a little time to buy a new mattress, so I flipped the one I had to a side I hadn’t used in a while. That made a big difference, and I began sleeping comfortably again. And so, amid all the chaos of last school year, the long-term idea of needing a new mattress completely slipped my mind.
Fast-forward to a few weeks ago. I haven’t been sleeping very well and have been waking up extra sore, but I’ve mostly been chalking it up to stress. Thanks to my chronic fatigue from Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS), I’m usually so tired by the end of the day that I fall asleep easily, but even still, I sometimes struggle.
Then one night as I lay in bed, I realized it felt like I was in a crater. I finally remembered, “Oh, I was supposed to get a new mattress!”
Stupid, right? Don’t worry, I totally agree. But honestly, I have a pattern of doing that kind of thing. If I’m super sore and having an EDS pain flare, my mom might ask if I’ve taken any pain meds. Nine times out of 10, I won’t have even thought about it. Same for when my seasonal allergies are particularly bad. I take daily medicine for allergies, but occasionally I need something extra. And again, I usually forget.
I suppose it’s because my mentality in dealing with EDS is often to just power through. That’s not a good option for everyone, but it works for me. I get busy, I keep moving, and I don’t focus on my soreness or my sinus headache.
But while, generally speaking, I don’t think it’s a bad trait, there are times when it causes me to put myself through more than is necessary. It’s OK to take appropriate pain meds when I’m extra sore. And there’s no reason for me not to take action to relieve my sinus headache. I have to remember to be better about these things. No one with EDS, no matter how mild or severe their symptoms, needs to deal with more pain than they have to on a daily basis.
And in case you’re wondering, my new mattress arrives next week.
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