Black and Blue Ribbons
— Karen Del Vecchio

After reading my column last week about a grueling high school soccer match that ended with me collapsing in exhaustion, unable to breathe, someone asked if my coaches had pushed me too hard. The answer is no. Actually, if there was something to blame for my teenage decision to…

I remember wishing the final whistle would just blow. I wasn’t sure how much longer I could force myself to keep running while being unable to breathe. I’d already run to the sideline for my albuterol inhaler several times, but I was still struggling. It was a big game, the…

Last week’s column about my hip pain got me thinking. I badly injured my right hip when I was 16 or 17 years old, before my diagnosis of Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS). I’m not sure if I had hip pain prior to that, but I’ve had issues with it…

Sometimes I’m baffled by my body’s connections and the way it compensates for issues related to my Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. Recently, I’ve been experiencing a sharp pain in the muscles along the front and sides of the bottom of my rib cage. I couldn’t think of anything I’d done…

I’ve recently been tapping into a new level of body awareness — or at least trying to. I’ve previously written about my pain flares and how my proprioception — the sense of body positioning in space — has been off at times. While these unfortunately are common…

I recently wrote about a strange sensation of energy I experienced during a massage, and it’s been really neat hearing feedback from others with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS) who’ve had similar experiences. One reader, a Chinese medicine practitioner, commented and said that it did indeed sound like I’d released some…

“When you’re not used to hurting all the time anymore, it really sucks when you do, doesn’t it?” Those are the paraphrased words of my massage therapist last week, and while they perhaps weren’t the most elegantly phrased, they sure rang true to me. After having a bizarre Ehlers-Danlos…

I’ve been managing some unusual pain issues over the past few weeks. It’s rare that I don’t feel better after a massage, but two weeks ago, that happened. Even after a few days, my pain wasn’t improving. It felt like I hadn’t even had a massage. I couldn’t…

I’ve been managing some funky, twisted body things recently. One of those has been manifesting in my back, and it feels bizarre. About a third to halfway down my spine, there’s an area that has a lot of scar tissue and muscle damage, and it feels like concentric circles…

I usually know when I’m crooked. When my body has been pulled out of alignment in a variety of ways, it’s usually pretty clear. But during my latest massage to treat the symptoms of my Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, something unusual happened. As I was lying on my…

I’ve often said that chronic fatigue is the toughest part of having Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. It’s exhausting being tired all the time! As a high school teacher and post-graduate counselor, this time of year is especially draining, as it’s full speed ahead to the finish line of graduation.

I’m pretty sure that if I were an instrument, I’d be an accordion: stretched out on one side, squinched up on the other. Sometimes as I walk along, in fact, I can actually experience myself as twisted. When standing up straight recently, I felt that my right hip and…