Living with EDS has prompted positive life choices for me
EDS symptoms early on changed the trajectory of this columnist's career
Sometimes I wonder what my life would be like if I didn’t have Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS), specifically how it shaped my life choices before I knew I had it. Undoubtedly, my life would be radically different.
Prior to my diagnosis at age 22, I was an avid soccer player. While I never would’ve competed in the top division in college, I was a strong enough of a player to attract interest from university coaches when I was in high school. I knew, though, that there was no way my body could handle that kind of physical beating.
Even though I hadn’t yet been diagnosed at the time, I did know that the physical pain of continuing at the same level wasn’t sustainable.
That prompted me to look at a variety of colleges. I ended up at a small liberal arts college, where I was lucky to earn a scholarship. I lived in a small town for the first time in my life, and without soccer dominating every hour outside of school, I was able to take horseback riding lessons for the first time.
Given the fact that I now have my own small horse farm, the decision back then to take a lesson sure stuck! While in college, I became increasingly involved with horses, which now are a central part of my life. I can’t imagine where I’d be without them and my farm community.
My freshman year in college, I started volunteering in the admissions office. That led to a salaried job for the next three years, which is how I paid for riding lessons. I also learned that I loved working with students who were deciding what to do after high school. That experience led to a career in education, specifically in college and post-graduate counseling.
Looking back, I’m amazed at how EDS, which I didn’t even know I had at the time, took my life down paths that indelibly shaped who I became. EDS isn’t fun to live with, but when I realize how it led me to where I am today — with a job I enjoy and that allows me to spend time outdoors — I wouldn’t change a thing!
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Joni Freshman
I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 58. I have so much damage from the choices I made while being told no, I couldn’t possibly have it.
Jane A Willoughby Woods
Thank you for your publication. I identified with both articles in this edition of EDS News. I was diagnosed later in life and felt relief to finally have information about my lifelong struggles. Having frequent dislocations and chronic pain made me rethink my life plan too but I am grateful for the path it led me to. Information is power. I appreciate your efforts.
Terry
You are very fortunate to have been diagnosed at the young age of 22. I also know my life would race been much better if I had known why I was in pain 24/7 my whole life. Diagnosed at 60. Lots of damage by that time. Good they are finally recognizing it. I also do not think it’s rare as they say. Too many people have it. Drs just called it fibromyalgia it depression. Smh.
Constance Frye Alsup
I suddenly thought, there has to be a reason I lost the babies and why I had multiple leg surgeries since I dislocated my knee in Scool at age 11. Hum. My journey has been rough and painful. I finally found a GENEOLIGIST at IU Riley in Indianapolis. I have several types of EDS and most worried about heart valve issues. My kids are gone, and at 70 have little fight left! Not everyone has a smoothe time. I am on a 3 year waiting list at EDS IU in Indianapolis.